Gender roles?
Saturday, August 08, 2009 / 5:23 PM
Yes..
The title above give you guys a rough idea of what I'll rant in this post..

Gender roles.
Everyone has a role to play..
Be it, you are a guy, girl or in betweens(faeggots)..
You have gender roles to play..
The society are just very critical about how females should behave...
One mistake made by us..
You reputation will be tarnish just like that..
POOF!

You lost your virginity,
You have no more value..
But men?
LOL!
I doubt their virgity worth that much..
In other words..
They fuck anyone..
It means nothing cause they still have that so called "values" in them...

Yesh,
I am being a chauvanist here..
So what!?
Got a problem with it?
Leave this blog please..^^

So back to gender roles..
Being a female or a GIRL..
Is the best damn thing that can happen to me..
Though I used to wish that I am a guy..
I take that back now..=)
I am not going to go indepth on why is it so cool to be a girl or a chick..
But..
I do wanna point out the gender roles that we havta play being a girl..

So,
I've been growing up with a bunch of guys..
When girls play dolls in their childhood days..
I remember playing rangers with my neighbour(which is obviously a guy)..
And my lil bro(we were tad close back then)..
Plus, I spent most of my time with my cousin brothers..
Since my parents were both busy working..
And they left me with my nanny and his sons(along with my lil brother)..
So growing up with a bunch of guys,
Pretty much influenced the way I behave as I grew up..
I am comfortable around guys..
Hence, its not a surprise that I don't fall for any of them..
Even if I spend most of my time with them..
To me, guys are like my brothers, good friends and people whom I can fool around with..

It sucks for some of you who grew up with all girls environment,
And became conscious whenever there are guys around you..
Tsk tsk..

My friends(mainly the guys),
Has been pointing out to me about my..
"Manly-ness"
Which also means..
My so unfemale attitude..
Looking like a girl..
But don't act like one..
*frown*

Just so I swear a lot..
Just so I am loud..
Just so I get along well with the guys..
Just so I am alright when I am out being the only rose among the thorns,
Just so I am defaint most of the times,
Just so I have a flat chest,
Just so I don't give into any sweet talkers,
Just so I don't need a man and I am proud of it...
That doesn't makes me a girl or a female..

I swear so what?
Fuck you!
There're no such rules which mentions that its not appropriate for girls to swear!
I am loud..
Which means I am just having fun..
I am rough..
I don't care if I hurt you..=p
I get along well with guys..
Cause they are fine with me being me..
I don't give in to those sweet talkers out there..
Cause I am immune to all those crawp..
And it makes me sick whenever those dudes pepper me with their sweet talks..
I don't need a man..
Because damn right!
I am doing fine on my own..^^
And guys expect a lil tad too much from girls=___=
I am messy and I hate cleaning up my room..
Just as long as I am clean..Xp
I am flat chested..
That doesn't make me a man=___="
I don't care if I don't look as skinny as a model..
Or as model like tall,
Cause I just don't give a damn!
I am not stunning..
Do I care?
NO!
I am a narcissist..
And you got a problem with it??
Screw you!
I don't care!

I look good for nobody but myself,
I read a lot for nobody but to satisfy my curiosity,
I am good to those who are good to me..
I am a bitch to those who are such a pain..
I can keep you company..
But don't pester me into anything..

In other words..
I love myself very much..
I am my own enemy..
So what if I am a tomboy?
But then again,
If I am a tomboy..
I wouldn't look like how I look like in pictures:









Love me, or hate me..
I love being me..
And I think all girls should love themselves..
And BE THEMSELVES..
Don't change for anyone but yourself..
They don't like your attitude..
Thats because you are too awesome for your own good..
Thank your dear mother for having you here..
And your father for being such a great man..
(my dad is an awesome man!)
Perverts look at us like an asset..
Since they have such pathetic man..
And they expect us to satisfy them?!
Tsk tsk...

The only role we have as a girl..
I have as a girl(correction)
Is to be myself..
And love myself..

PS : The camera loves you for who you are..

So start loving yourself girls!

You might not look that great outside..

You are still beautiful within you..

And that matters the most


PSS : If you are like me who doesn't confirm to the societies expectation of you being a female, YOU TRULY RAWK!=)

PSSS : I will go out with whoever I am comfortable with

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