Its mummy's birthday today!
I forgotten how old is she actually,
My sis hadda remind me her age..
Anyway, she's celebrating her 42nd birthday this year!=D
We had a double celebration along with Father's Day.

She might be pretty controlling at times,
Especially when I hit my teen age,
As much as I hate her controlling me at those days,
But, if its not for her, I wouldn't be able to think,
I might not agree with her thoughts,
But I pretty much keep them to myself..
However, she is always the one whom I'll turn to,
If I need an adult views about certain things..

I must say,
She's a sport!=)
I thank The One above for giving me such a mother,
Who is open to new cultures and experience,
Who doesn't think like those typical chinese mother,
That love their son better than their daughters,
(I feel sorry for those girls who grew up with a mother with typical chinese thinking)
But my mom treats us equally,
Boy or girl..
She thinks we all have the rights to choose what we want in live,
I love it when I could ask her to convince my dad to allow me to go for trips or camps,
For my dad hates it when I am away from home..

She might be over protective towards me,
But I know she does it out of her love for me,
Yes, I have to say that I might not be the easiest daughter to speak to as I grew up,
Or get along with..
However, like most mothers..
She tries to understand my needs and try to tolerate my temper at home...
She knows very well that I am a messy person,
Who hates to clean her room..
And she always helped me with the cleaning,
But everything has a limit,
We are not pampered,
Since we were taught from young,
To work for what we want..
We were taught not to be dependable on other people,
And girls shouldn't be dependable on guys..

Hence,
Because of her,
I'm able to love myself for who I am..
She taught me a lot when comes to areas like that,
Dignity, self-value, determination etc..

Happy Birthday Mom!!!

Note : Át times, I wish you could stop treating me like a kid. Then again, all mothers actually parents can never look at their child as an adult. For as we grew up, we will still be a kid in their eyes^^

Usually when you date a guy for years,
You would ask them when will they get married...
And I have a few cousins who has been having a stable relationship with their other half,
Since they are all grown ups,
And its about the time for some of them to get married,
So instead of asking my mom when will they get married,
My brother asked, "Ma, when will she break up with her boyfriend?"
It was hilarious!!
I can't help laughing!!XD

My bro is super straight forward with his words,
He doesn't filter what he wants to tell you,
He speaks his mind,
Though at times his words might hurt your feelings,
Somehow, I don't mind him being like that,
In fact, I can get along very well with him since he doesn't mind my unfiltered words..*grin*